Unraveling 'Love Brain': A Teen's Journey from Obsession to Self-Awareness"



   A Chinese teenage girl known as Xiaoyu has recently been diagnosed with a condition dubbed "love brain," as reported by the South China Morning Post (SCMP). Her obsessive behavior towards her boyfriend, which involved incessant calls and messages, led to her hospitalization and caused distress to her partner.

Xiaoyu's fixation began during her first year of college when she met her boyfriend. Their relationship quickly escalated from affection to unhealthy obsession, with Xiaoyu demanding constant updates on his whereabouts and immediate responses to her messages.

A viral video on Chinese social media captures Xiaoyu repeatedly contacting her boyfriend and urging him to activate his WeChat camera. Even after being ignored, she persisted in calling him via video. The situation escalated when Xiaoyu made over 100 calls in a single day, prompting her boyfriend to seek police intervention after she threatened self-harm.

Upon evaluation at The Fourth People’s Hospital in Chengdu, China, a doctor diagnosed Xiaoyu with "love brain," also known as borderline personality disorder. Dr. Du Na highlighted that this condition, often linked to troubled relationships in early life, can coexist with anxiety, depression, or bipolar disorder. While some individuals can manage mild symptoms through mindfulness and emotional regulation, severe cases may require professional intervention.

The incident underscores the profound impact of childhood relationships on adult behavior, with attachment styles like Secure, Avoidant, Anxious, or Disorganized attachment shaping romantic interactions. By fostering self-awareness, self-care, and emotional management, individuals can cultivate healthier relationships with their partners.

Samuel Navkar
Freelance Journalist

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